Brothers new wife fleecing him for money..she gave up her job?

woman....are you sick of hearing of these stay at home woman who just drain their husbands finances? They decide to 'opt out' of work just coz their husbands smart and can get a well paid job. Surely, marriage is equal and its the responsibilty of the woman aswell as the man to keep the bills and mortgage paid. Why end up 'dependant' on a man like fools. Does that not mean you end up 'needing' the man and not being 'able to get a divorce for financial' reasons coz you made yourselfs lose your independance? I certainly as a wife will never give up my own money and you woman who do are just sapps. The reason for my rant: My very rich brother who is 51 and a well known barrister just married a lowly admin girl of 31 and guess what...shes opted out of work and is now cleaning my brother out. My brother went to uni for years and slogged his way to the top. Why waste his money on this little upstart tramp?